The words couldn&#8217;t be more piercing in the conditions.
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Just before his 40th birthday celebration tomorrow, Ruler Harry focused on the significance of family by messaging the US magazine Individuals to tell them &#8216;The best present I&#8217;ve at any point been given is, without uncertainty, is my children. I appreciate watching them develop each and every day.&#8217;
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With regards to the opinion, he is arranging a little party at his $11 million Montecito home with Meghan and their two youngsters, Ruler Archie and Princess Lilibet, followed supposedly by an excursion with a gathering of his dearest companions.
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Of the family he abandoned in England, there will be no sign. No Ruler Charles nor Camilla. Undoubtedly no Ruler William or Kate.
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<figure style="width: 634px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/09/14/01/89649653-13847489-Some_insiders_believe_Harry_remains_angry_that_no_one_is_begging-a-120_1726274729185.jpg" width="634" height="425" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Some insiders believe Harry remains angry that no one is begging him to come back into the royal fold, writes Rebecca English</figcaption></figure>
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The playboy ruler who was once prestigious for shakily dropping out of clubs with a progression of lovely blondies on his arm has another home on another mainland and a totally new life.
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He not only turned his back on everything he once knew, but pressed the nuclear button.
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He blew his home, his friends and his duties as a royal – but, above all, his family. And the toxic fall-out simply won’t go away.
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In the weeks running up to his milestone birthday, I have been speaking to those with inside knowledge of this intractable breakdown.
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One of the major problems, they tell me, is that Harry has never been one for saying sorry, or even admitting he was wrong. ‘Maybe he’ll feel some sorrow at the way things have turned out, but he’ll never admit that any of it was his fault,’ says one insider who has known him since childhood.
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Turning 40 may prompt him to reflect on his life but, astonishingly, they believe Harry remains hurt and angry that no one is begging him to come back into the royal fold – and this is yet another impasse to any rapprochement in the near future.
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For their part, some in Royal circles admit that the Palace machinery didn’t handle the whole ‘Sus𝓈ℯ𝓍 situation’ terribly well – at the same time, strongly emphasising that it’s actually rather hard to help a couple who make everything so ‘exhaustingly difficult’, seeing conspiracy at every turn.
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Indeed, the situation got so bad that many believe leaving Britain was the right thing for the prince to do.
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‘He wasn’t happy, he couldn’t hide that and he needed to make a break. It was a horrible, toxic atmosphere,’ says one insider who lived through the crisis.
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However, it was the way Harry went about cutting ties, his laser-focused determination to wreak an almost Biblical vengeance on his family, the determination to spill his guts at any cost, that has truly ruptured bonds with those – both family and friends – who once loved and doted on him.
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I was told of one former confidant, who for many years couldn’t have been closer to Harry, who was so disgusted by his behaviour – and, in particular, by some of the things he apparently said privately about his family – that they vowed never to talk to him again. And they haven’t.
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<figure style="width: 634px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/09/14/01/89649749-13847489-One_former_confidant_of_Prince_Harry_told_Rebecca_English_that_s-a-121_1726274729186.jpg" width="634" height="946" data-gallery-handler-attached="true" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">One former confidant of Prince Harry told Rebecca English that some of his friends and family were so disgusted by his behaviour they have vowed never to speak to him again</figcaption></figure>
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So is there any chance of Harry ever being welcomed back? Can shattered relations be restored?
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Where William is concerned, one well-placed source told me that even after the infamous Oprah interview in March 2021, they could envisage a time when the brothers would find a way to make up eventually.
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They don’t think that now, following the continued barrage of attacks in the Sus𝓈ℯ𝓍’s Netflix documentary, the interviews and podcasts and his vitriolic 2023 memoir Spare, which they say was the final nail in the coffin.
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‘The relationship [between the brothers] is non-existent,’ another admits. ‘William feels betrayed and has other priorities.’
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Even Harry’s most loyal supporters agree the brothers’ relationship is a ‘complicated beast’:
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‘I’d still like to think they might talk, one day. But there’s a long road ahead and we certainly aren’t any closer to that today.’
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They do believe recent claims, however, that Harry would like to find a way to reconcile with his father, particularly given the King’s cancer battle, which ‘weighs on his mind’. This is why, they feel, Harry chose not to update the recently published paperback verson of his hit-job memoir, a climbdown which came as a huge (and not unwelcome) surprise to Buckingham Palace.
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In return, royal officials are notably shying away from even discussing the Sus𝓈ℯ𝓍es in the hope it will give father and son space to see if they can save anything from their relationship
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The Royal household and the family remain nervous, of course, and wary, it’s fair to say.
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Trust is so low that Harry was the last family member to be given the news of his father’s cancer diagnosis in February, and then only just as it was about to break globally. (He was not even informed in advance of his sister-in-law’s health crisis weeks later).
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The King was also left disappointed last November after his son called to wish him happy 75th birthday. Just hours later, details of their conversation, including the fact that his grandchildren Archie and Lilibet, had sent a video message to him singing happy birthday, was leaked by Team Sus𝓈ℯ𝓍 to journalists.
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<figure style="width: 634px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/09/14/01/89649767-13847489-Where_William_is_concerned_one_source_said_that_even_after_the_i-a-123_1726274729187.jpg" width="634" height="424" data-gallery-handler-attached="true" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Where William is concerned, one source said that even after the infamous Oprah interview in March 2021, they could envisage a time when the brothers would find a way to make up</figcaption></figure>
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&#8216;A profoundly confidential call between the Lord and his grandkids and it winds up in a paper the following day. Truly?&#8217; another source said, underscoring exactly how much this was considered to have crossed a line.
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One more significant mark of incitement has been Harry&#8217;s continuous court fight against the Work space over the withdrawal of his nonstop citizen subsidized police security when in the UK, after he quit illustrious obligations and moved to North America.
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In July, Individuals magazine was advised exhaustively about the case, asserting it had driven an &#8216;impervious wall&#8217; among himself and his dad. That part essentially is to a great extent evident. However, the magazine likewise printed claims that Harry is persuaded the Ruler has the ability to upset the choice by RAVEC (the Chief Council for the Security of Sovereignty and People of note) to strip him of assurance.
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Also, revealingly, it cited sources as saying that on the off chance that the question of safety was settled, it would be &#8216;swords down&#8217; and the ruler could joyfully &#8216;revive&#8217; his relationship with his dad. For the time being, the sources added, the ruler&#8217;s calls and letters to his dad go unanswered. There is &#8216;finished quietness&#8217; between the two.
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The thought the ruler can determine the insurance issue is plain off-base, as per the individuals who know. He has no influence over what the council chooses.
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To apparently recommend the ruler could get to see his grandkids once more in the event that he mediated with regards to this issue appears to be especially senseless and credulous.
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It&#8217;s really expected that Harry is so blinkered over the issue that he might attempt to campaign his dad assuming they were ever to secretly talk.
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For the Ruler, who is now confronting impressive humiliation at his own child suing his administration, in his courts, that could naturally harm.
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<figure style="width: 634px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/09/14/01/89649721-13847489-There_will_be_no_sign_of_the_family_Harry_left_behind_in_Britain-a-122_1726274729187.jpg" width="634" height="894" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">There will be no sign of the family Harry left behind in Britain at his party in Montecito, in the $11million home he shares with Meghan and their two children</figcaption></figure>
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‘It’s really tricky to have any conversation [with Harry] in which the subject of security could be raised. It would put the King on the spot and if anything he said were to be leaked – not that he would say anything, mind you – it could heavily impact a live court case. There are serious constitutional issues here at stake outside of any family dramas,’ a source explains.
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Harry is still given police protection in certain situations when he comes to the UK, as long as he gives 28 days notice, and his father has offered him accommodation when he does (contrary to what some have claimed).
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The prince has chosen not to take up that offer up so far, and refuses to bring his family citing security concerns.
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Perhaps, in truth, he also fears walking into the lion’s den?
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Which brings us to the question that has most often been asked in recent weeks: does Harry really want to come back to the UK?
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Not permanently, I am told. His life now is in Montecito with his wife and children. ‘He’s always full of the joys of the life he has in California and, yes, I do think he’s happy,’ says one who speaks to him fairly regularly.
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But they also reveal he is looking at ways to facilitate coming back more regularly and easily.
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‘He has various touch points in the UK, a handful of charities such as WellChild, and the Invictus Games which will come to Birmingham in a few years time.
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‘There will be more reasons and requirements [for him] to visit and the easier that can be done, the better. It’s not a satisfactory situation at the moment, for all sorts of reasons.
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Will that incorporate visits to see family? &#8216;That is more interesting, however possibly,&#8217; another insider says. &#8216;The UK is his house, it&#8217;s where he grew up, it&#8217;s where his loved ones and a great deal of his inclinations are.
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&#8216;The sense I get is that there is a longing for some benevolent rapprochement. Obviously that will require some investment and tolerance. We should simply say there&#8217;s an expectation there will be more certain discussions later on.&#8217;
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For that, notwithstanding, there would should be an ocean change in family relations &#8211; and the next move is particularly up to Harry.
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Meanwhile, the birthday kid will appreciate arranging his confidential festivals without the people who ought to be his most treasured. Then, at that point, it&#8217;s an outing to New York to pitch his magnanimous undertakings, as well as another &#8216;semi imperial&#8217; visit abroad.
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Strikingly, sources say he and Meghan think about their last two outings, to Nigeria and Colombia, a resonating achievement and are quick to visit Africa along these lines straightaway.
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10 years prior, when he praised his last milestone birthday, Harry was a ruler arising, blurred peered toward and wounded from the tanked, drug-fuelled disarray of his 20s.
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While he actually hadn&#8217;t found individual bliss, having quite recently broken up with his second long haul sweetheart Cressida Bonas, he was freely praised for his work supporting the underestimated and minimized, and was generally viewed as a well known and completely current sovereign.
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His biographer, Penny Junor, even portrayed him as &#8216;splendid, magnetic, interesting, sweet and exquisite&#8217;. Yet additionally as &#8216;risky&#8217; and &#8216;fit for acting like an imbecile&#8217;. Prophetic to be sure.

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The problem with Harry in royal circles? He’s left behind feelings of disgust, is accused of wreaking Biblical vengeance